“An optimist is the human personification of spring.”
― Susan J. Bissonette

Most of us are optimistic when we begin something new, especially if that something new is of our own choosing …

We’re optimistic when we begin a new relationship, start a new business, buy a new house, go on vacation …

So why does that optimism fade over time? Why do some people become jaded, while others retain their optimism?

I believe it comes down to being a matter of choice.

 

You see where this is going, right?

I was feeling a little down and discouraged about turning 65 last month. I was feeling a bit sorry for myself that I physically couldn’t do the things I was able to do a few short years ago.

Then my son Ron threw me a surprise birthday party. He gathered together family and friends who are important to me, and they all surprised me with a celebration. I played football in the front yard with my grandsons. I ate jalapeño poppers and cake. I had fun.

That day reminded me that life is about the choices we make.

It also showed me I still have a lot to be optimistic about. Yes, I’m starting a new phase of my life. Yes, there are changes ahead.

Yes, I choose to be optimistic about all that the future holds.

Suzette Peterson is the “semi-retired” owner of Mini Mops, Inc. She founded the company in 1975 and is looking forward to a bit of a break.